Attention is a limited resource. Mine, yours. At any given moment, there is only so much that can be devoted to a thing.
We are ultimately limited beings.
Routine delusions of grandeur aside for a moment. You, I , really canNOT do it, be it, have it all.
So, what you ask of someone, is it worth it?
Is it worth their attention?
Is it worth yours?
Sometimes, it's really hard to tell.